First and foremost - my gratitude to my colleague in office, for inspiring me to write - for motivating me to leave everything and hit the blog!! My sincere thanks to my friend Harleen who actually gave me that stream of thoughts - something which I always look for before blogging. Didn't get it? Confused?? Ok I am making the matters simpler.
I haven't blogged for... how many weeks... I don't remember. And I did have some topics in my mind, but it was this particular conversation with Harleen which triggered the thought process and ignited me to be back with a bang!
I've been married for almost 5 months now, and almost everyone asks me, how's life after marriage -- some people may try and rhyme it with -- how's life after death!!! Well, just kidding!! Then they also ask me, is there anything exciting happening???
And my answer always is, there's nothing exciting like that, but I am enjoying the feeling of being contented, the feeling of not being alone to fight the big bad world, not alone to take care of all problems - pipes leaking, fuses going off, payments, cleaning up and all.... there's someone with me now, who shares every moment with me. And that in itself is such a beautiful feeling.
But while talking to Harleen, I realised that there is so much excitement in this!! I mean, my priorities changed almost overnight, the way I behaved, the way I thought everything changed overnight, and believe me that is the most exciting transition you can ever have!
I remember those days exactly a year back and I am seeing how it is now.... when I look back, I can see how far I have come, how I have changed, and that IS exciting!
I think, excitement is not only your adrenaline rushing all the time - excitement can be felt subtly also, like this, observing changes, savouring those moments, learning some new recipe, or just doing things together - even if it means watching TV! That is so very exciting!
It's just fun observing how your language changes from 'I' to 'We'.... how you make changes to your name, to your details in office, to the way you carry about....... everything!!
And, I only pray to God, let this feeling of excitement last forever....
Yes, it is exciting... life after marriage is exciting!! Change is exciting!!
This is about what I think of Life. My blogs are always centered towards simple yet complex thing called LIFE!! I always think that Life is one the most talked of, most wondered about, most researched, most intricate and most interesting subject on earth! This is also about my interactions with self.... what I talk to myself, I confess, I appreciate, I dislike, I admire and all that I feel about myself...
My favorite books
- Anne Frank - Diary of young girk by Anne Frank
- Asa mi asami by P L Deshpande
- Batatyachi Chaal by P L Deshpande
- Da Vinci Code by Dan Brown
- Kabandha by Ratnakar Matkari
- Memoirs of Sherlock Holmes by Arthur Conan Doyle
- Not without my daughter by Betti Mehmoudi
- Prisoner of Birth by Jeffrey Archer
- Sins of my father by Jeffrey Archer
- The kite runner by Khaled Hosseni
- The lost symbol by Dan Brown
- Thousand Splendid Suns by Khaled Hosseni
- To cut a long story short by Jeffrey Archer
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